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Wednesday, May 7, 2025

IWSG May 2025 Becoming an Elephant

 


Welcome, readers, writers, authors, and bloggers!

We're glad you're here! It's the First Wednesday of the month; when we celebrate IWSG Day in the form of a blog hop featuring members and guests of the Insecure Writer's Support GroupFounded by author Alex Cavanaugh (Thank you, Captain!) and fostered by like-minded associates, IWSG is a comfortable place to share views and literary news as we record our journeys. Check out our monthly newsletter here.

The awesome co-hosts for the May 7 posting of the IWSG are Feather Stone, Janet Alcorn, Rebecca Douglass, Jemima Pett, and Pat Garcia!

 Today’s entirely optional question: Some common fears writers share are rejection, failure, success, and lack of talent or ability. What are your greatest fears as a writer, and how do you manage them?

By listing all the common (been there, done that) fears, this question really gets to the heart of what’s left of the matter when comes to the final little shadow of fear that looms in the corner of my peripheral conscientiousness like the old White Elephant that everyone considered an attainable treasure until it appeared in “the room” unannounced. I call it relevance, and it’s what I’m afraid of losing. It’s also the elephant that no one wants to talk about.  How do I even know I ever had it? Here are a few thoughts…

 “Relevance to me is about being creative and doing things you believe in, whether that’s music or acting or painting a picture, or whatever it is.

~ Larry Mullen Jr.

Yeah, I agree with that idea. Until or unless losing relevance is a deal-breaker. Do I then stop writing? Ride dejectedly off into the sunset, dropping useless words behind me in the sun-scorched sand?

The concept that an artist would be revered by popular culture is an immediate dismissal of his relevance as an artist.”  ~ Thomas Kinkade

If that sounds harsh, there’s this:

 “The most striking fault in work by young or beginning novelists, submitted for criticism -- is irrelevance – due either to infatuation or indecision. To direct such an author’s attention to the imperative of relevance is certainly the most useful – and possibly the only – help that can be given.” ~ Elizabeth Bowen

Oof!   Let’s read on,

“Relevance is kind of a weird thing. If one does topical material, it makes sense to want to be relevant. But if someone talks about donut sprinkles, it’s not quite as important.  Unless the US Supreme Court makes a decision outlawing donut sprinkles.” ~ Brian Regan

Perhaps I’d best quit while I’m smiling ;-)

Wishing everyone a wonderfully productive month of May!

 

11 comments:

  1. I like Larry Mullen's quote a lot. You're relevant if you write what you need to say.

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    1. Hi Natalie!
      I think you're relevant only if and when you matter or make a difference, whether it be to just a few or many. Enjoying what you do is a bonus ;-)

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  2. I like the last one!
    If irrelevance is of youth, you and I have nothing to worry about...

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  3. Relevance is a tricky concept. Relevant to whom? To how many people? If I have a small audience that loves my work, am I relevant? If my work resonates with just one person but in a way that brightens their day, am I relevant? I don't aspire to cultural relevance, mostly because I largely ignore what most people consider culturally relevant, and because I'm too quirky to have broad appeal. And I'm OK with that. Usually.

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    1. Hi Janet!
      I'm reminded of the busker who played violin on the sidewalk each day for the enjoyment of four kittens. They were almost grown before the musician ever received a coin in his hat, but I bet he already felt rich.
      So, yes. An audience, large or small, is still proof that you are alive and relevant ;-) Thank you for co-hosting!

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    2. "I don't aspire to cultural relevance, mostly because I largely ignore what most people consider culturally relevant"
      👏👏👏

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  4. I'm not completely sure I know what relevance is in this context. Is genre fiction ever "relevant"? I'll settle for "gives someone pleasure."

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    1. It is if you have an audience for it ;-) Thank you for co-hosting!

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  5. I agree with all the comments above. What does relevance matter if you aren't writing what you love?

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